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桃之夭夭 ,¸¸,ø¤º°`°º¤ø,¸¸,ø¤º::....::º¤^-^YY June 30 Car accidentOn July 27th, 2009.
Me, my husband, my parents, my father in law (abo's father), my brother in law (abo's younger brother), and my other 2 fds went to take my wedding pictures.
One of my fds is a photographer.
It was sunny, everyone is so happy, we enjoyed this tired, but excited feeling.
( I hate I can only type in English, SHIT).
We went to several scenes, park, bridge, some old crapy building, only one scene left, an iron company, we want a different wedding pictures.
My brother in law, Tim, was driving a car, my father in law, my two fds were in his car, he was driving, through a green traffic light.
My husband was driving our car, with me and my parents on it. We followed his car.
It happened, a jeep tried to turn left, who can not turn left at that time cuz our way is green light.
Tim's car continued moving forward, suddenly, the jeep hit their car in a crazy speed.
Tim's car sping right away and stop.
Me and my husband jumped out of our car and shouted.
NOW, LET ME TELL U WHAT I SAW IN TIM'S CAR:
Their air bag bumped out, flood was all over his head.
Then I move forward to check my father in law.....
IT WAS MOST SCARY PIC I'VE EVER SEE. His left face was almost gone, only a big big hole left in his left face.
Below is the news of this car accident, the white car is Tim's car and my father in law just sit behind the driver.
He just sit there, peacefully.
OH MY GOD, OH MY GOD, OH MY GOD.
Someone helped us call 911, I was shocked, I cried like crazy.
What I hate the most is the jeep's driver, the motherfucker still confessed himself said he saw the left turn light turned green and then turned the left.
Such a lier, son of bitch. I would kill him, he will go to hell. June 26 break from workNow i'm reading 'Optim Software Upload' Process.
Tell from the name, yes, no fun at all.
But it is priority work. Why u get paid, b/c u make money for company.
fds asked me, whether i cried in my wedding ceremony.
No, i didn't. b/c it was so short. Every single words jumped out of ur mouth, one by one.
U only focused on what those words mean after they combine together.
But his voice is shaking, i heard that. And he told me later actually his whole body was shaking.
It was memorial. Nomatter how long it lasted, at that moment, in the huge space, the world, you only heard you, and him.
And you realized, he is your man NOW.
Hour by hour, I feel tired this week.
After driving around 1.5 hrs and get home, i feel relax and peaceful.
It is not easy to start with this job, but I know this is what I love, even more.
I appreciate all I get.
earth rotates...
live continues...
June 24 announcement(Sorry im in company, cant type in chinese)
Just want to announce to my fds:
On June 19, 2009, I got marriage lisense, which means, NOW I am a woman with a man ^_^.
Congrats to me!
'I, XXX, take you, XXX, to be my lawfully wedded wife, for richer for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love, to honor and to cherish, from this day forward, 'til death do we part.'
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....... June 16 生活很懒散最终等到了我的EAD卡
昨天去公司想摸鱼,没摸成, 下午就收到了卡, 下周正式开始我的实习生活
生活很懒散, 如果再不把我的毕业的东西弄完我就死了
学位拿不到没法儿混了
不知道为什么会觉得那么累
连睡着的时候都有这样的感觉
爸爸妈妈还是在美国陪着我们
在成家立业的路上 我们渐渐步入中年
哈...
May 19 爸妈在费城(续)谢谢朋友们都夸我爸爸妈妈可爱, 我回头告诉他们, 他们会很高兴的.
早上6:30死了一样地爬起来, 看到妈妈在给我炒面, '肯次肯次地..' 赶忙制止..
大清早吃炒面我觉得我是不行的...把油腻腻冒着炒面味道的妈妈轰到房间里睡觉.
爸爸又跳出来了..'早上不吃不行的, 妈妈那么早起来给你炒面..', 很罗唆, 也被我很迅速地制止了. 一起被轰到房间里.
我和阿波波出门了..
周五的晚上, 爸爸和妈妈打WII的保龄球, 爸爸姿势摆的吓死人, 妈妈很幽雅地打了很多个全中.
爸爸很生气, 气势汹汹地准备回击...一发全中之后, 很凯旋地往后一座
结果.......以很慢很慢地姿势摔了个四脚朝天...后面是沙发和墙壁之间的缝缝...不是沙发...倒地同时还把我们家的竖灯给压断了...
阿波波赶快上去扶, 不扶地话我觉得我爸爸就卡在那里了..妈妈在旁边叫:"不要扶,不要扶,让他卡在那里"...
爸爸很内疚,来美第四天把我们家灯压坏了,他看到房子门口有一辆破了的儿童自行车, 就说"第二天回头把他锯了修灯:"..
阿波波听了直冒冷汗..赶忙更迅速地制止..今天临早出门时候还特地嘱咐我转告爸爸千万别动家门口的自行车..
不是说人家放在垃圾筒旁边就是一定准备扔掉的...就算想扔掉回头出来的时候只看到半辆自行车, 心里也会很郁闷很挖塞的...
昨天半夜终于从EASTON阿波波父母家赶回PHILLY, 很累很累..妈的..累的老娘腰酸背疼的..
今天起床时候真的想直接撞墙壁撞晕过去算了..还能睡到自然醒...(又说脏话了又说脏话了...检讨..)
爸爸和阿波拨家人打TEX HOLDER, 和梭哈比较接近, 可以算赌博的一种游戏...2块封顶
不过我那很傻很傻的老爸还是输了很多钱, 还在牌桌上和妈妈吵架...哦哟喂..丢人哪..
顺便说一句, 妈妈赢了的, 妈妈怎么那么聪明, 以前都没打过, 爸爸以前打过的, 还是那么傻, 还好我象妈妈...
阿波波也努力地赢钱来堵住我爸爸这台漏水机...
当然...失败了..
下午准备载着我爸爸妈妈去我新的实习公司瞧瞧...在NEW JERSER哟...哈哈..和贺佳就变近了..挖卡卡...
就剩下阿波波了...我的一个脑袋顶他两个脑袋...没问题的!!!
May 15 爹妈在费城(2)来美之今,老爸老妈每天早上5点就起床,然后要给我们做早饭,天哪,我要困死了.
第一天清晨7:30, 爸爸在我房间门口喊我的名字,硬生生地把我和阿波波吵醒了.
然后说:"哦,你们还没去学校啊,我以为你们走了..."我很生气,骂骂咧咧地起床陪他们聊天去了, 被阿波波揍了一下...
晚上回家,以为走错了屋子,家里干净地和宾馆一样,有种震撼地干净,也可能是我们平时太脏了,微微有些小不习惯.
他们拎出了一个站利品, 一盒洗衣粉, 两位英文一句不会说的老人家下午去了PATHMART乱逛,买的.
收钱的时候,听说我爸爸死死捏着那几张20美金的钱,仔细抽出一张给人家,然后等找头.
人家还问他要, 他不给,人家摇摇手说不够,他给了人家一张一块的,人家还是说不够,他又给了人家一张一块的.
就把钱放到裤子口袋里, 结果...人家还是说不够...那盒洗衣粉是22.04, 他死活不给人家零钱, 把洗衣粉给提回来了...- -||
此后就上瘾了,老想着去PATHMART买东西,问阿波波把卡拿过来,和妈妈高高兴兴地去逛PATHMART.
[写不下去了...回头再写...] 爹妈在费城(1)弹指一挥间,这是在美国第三个年头了. 终于千辛万苦把父母盼来了美国.
当夜里12点收到他们签证通过的电话时,高兴地都哽咽了.
我不知道作为女儿,能为他们做些什么,但是我努力地去回报一些, 为了自己幸福, 而他们会因此而幸福.
和阿波波去机场接机的时候,心里很紧张,不单单是因为2年多地没有见面,更是因为身边多了一个人,并且马上就会成为他们的亲人.
很担心初次见面的陌生会相处不好,现在发现,这些担心其实是白担心. [白白让老娘多掉了几根头发.]
今天是他们在美国的第五天, 只能用两个字来形容他们的心情, "兴奋"
最猛烈的是老爸,连时差都没有,我太佩服他了. 每天都高兴地不知道怎么办才好.
天天拖着阿波波你一根烟,我一根烟地东拉西扯. 我这个女儿看不下去了, 我觉得有些地位不保的趋势.
[回复到原本煽情的调调里面去]
我是幸运的, 顺利地来到美国读书, 转了一次学校, 得到了奖学金, 有一个很好的中国导师, 认识了阿波波, 认识了一个新的家, 找到了工作, 虽然目前只是实习.
连当初在餐馆打工都是幸运的, 伙食费的开销基本为零, 还有对我很好的餐馆老板和老板娘. 虽然离开了, 但是心里还是很真心地嘱咐他们全家都平安幸福.
在美国的这三年, 我得到了很多, 真的很多, 原本在国内我都不敢去奢望的东西, 一件一件地都在实现, 除了感激, 我没有别的心情.
当然, 同时伴随着奶奶的过世和外婆的离开, 站在半个地球以外的我, 也有力所能及的悲哀.
许愿和等待实现时候的心情是最辛苦的, 得到的时候发现幸福原来真的触手可得, 却很容易擦肩而过.
人生的第一段应该很快就要终结, 在接近我27岁生日之时, 写下我所有的感激之情, 刻上我海外求学至今的第一块里程碑. |
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